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How Going in Nature Can Bring in Your Extraordinary Love

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How Going in Nature Can Bring in Your Extraordinary Love

In my love coaching practice I had a client who, after her session, reported back to me that she was spending time with her extraordinary love. I was so happy that she met someone!… She would send me pictures of the ocean, the mountains, the sunsets. I was so curious as to why she wouldn’t send me a pic of him so I asked her for one and she sent me more nature pics. She said that she is seeing extraordinary love in everything and has this knowing after her session that her man is just right there but not yet in physical form. So...

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What to Do When People Don’t Treat You Well

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What to Do When People Don’t Treat You Well

There are a few reasons why you could be attracting people who don’t treat you well. I saw a woman recently who had described her life as having people be rude to her for no reason and men in relationship with her cheated on her or were mean. Because of this, she thought something was wrong with her and was isolating herself out of fear of something else happening, along with a growing hatred for people. One thing I know is that we were meant to live joyful  free lives interacting with people to learn our lives lessons. I remember this...

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Have You Been Betrayed in Love?

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Have You Been Betrayed in Love?

I remember feeling absolutely knocked to my core when I found out an ex didn’t want to be married to me anymore. It hurt so bad I had to excuse myself to the bathroom and almost passed out. I remember the anger that came out of me after I found out he was secretly seeing someone while we were married. This kind of betrayal knocks you to the ground. You think you’re going to die from the pain or wish you would. You are actually grieving the loss of the dream you had for you and the other person. I now strongly believe that...

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Not in Love with your Job?

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Not in Love with your Job?

People say that what you love doing as a kid is your life purpose. I loved petting my bunny, coloring, writing in my diary and healing animals and holding babies. I also seemed to love anything that had to do with love, like the care bears or romance. I also loved speaking into my tape recorder, now I’m dating myself. I would pretend the whole world could hear me. I also loved going to school. I knew I wanted to be a teacher at a young age. My mother reminded me that I would teach the neighborhood kids songs and whatever I learned. I...

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How to Hold Boundaries in Love

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I was talking with a client who met her extraordinary love. She was really upset because she was absolutely exhausted from all of the time she’d been spending with him. When we meet our love we are so excited to learn everything, feel those euphoric feelings, play all the time. Our bodies are especially attracted as well, which can be extremely difficult to handle. When a man is around his new love, he can’t wait until the next time to see her. This can happen to the woman as well. What became dating once or twice a week turned...

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Are You Dating an Unavailable Man?

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A woman told me she was about to end it with a man she was dating who was still married, but going through a divorce. She was feeling topys turvy at the fact that she has fallen for a man who is not fully divorced. He adores this woman with all his heart, but he is in the process of getting a divorce. Both he and his ex are living in separate homes and just need to work out the paperwork, which takes time, especially if children are involved. I have so much to say about this topic. I will share what I know having been on both ends of the...

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What About Age Difference?

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A woman asked me about age difference. After reading my book, she met a man and is exploring a relationship with him. Yay! People are meeting their Extraordinary Love!!! A woman had seen his picture and asked about his age. She hadn’t thought of age and didn’t even know how old he was. She felt she needed to defend him or their relationship. This actually happened to me too. When I met my husband, my mother asked me how old he was. I didn’t even know. I found out and she had a cow. She was afraid I wouldn’t be able to...

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Do You Have a Winning Mindset for Love?

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As you read this, I am sending your mind Reiki love. When people tell me they want a partner, I can often sense a feeling in them of defeat. They’ve done so much to heal from past break-ups, work on themselves, but where is their love? They start to resent or give up on their spirit helpers guides and the universe being a friendly place. Your mind may not be in a winning state. What I am here to tell you is that you are extraordinary. You want a certain kind of love that is a life long partner. You’re not just looking for some...

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Talk to Your Extraordinary Love Before You Actually Meet

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TALK TO YOUR LOVE BEFORE YOU EVEN MEET Whether you have met your love or are hoping to, one of the most important things you can do is talk to your love. What I mean is you talking to their soul. Talk to this person as if they are right in front of you. Have conversations with your love. You might be thinking what I’m suggesting is crazy, but stay with me for a moment. Your brain doesn’t know the difference between past, present or future. So have a conversation with your love before you see them. Imagine them standing in light...

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Calm Your Perfectionist

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Whether you are dating or are in a relationship, these tips will prove to be the best thing you can do for yourself each day. I was working with a client who has had the experience of being super stressed about meeting guys. She is constantly judging what she said, did, her looks… Her running belief is that if she’s perfect, someone will like her. Nobody is perfect. This will also keep you in your head, which is a stressful way to be. As a result she has attracted men who seem jumpy. Now we all know that when we are triggered by...

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